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The Power of Questions: Seven Tips

Changing my mind is difficult for you to do. But I do it all of the time.  So one of the most powerful ways for you to change my mind is to ask me questions.  When I answer them, you … Continue reading

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Substance or Impression?

“Both” say researchers Melanie Dempsey (of Ryerson University) and Andrew Mitchell (of the University of Toronto). Their 2010 study* had three stages. Stage 1 They exposed experimental participants to hundreds of screen images.  Among the images were images linked to … Continue reading

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Pulling Faces

Try an experiment – probably it’s best to do it when nobody is looking. See if you can quickly make a facial expression of happiness.  Easy?  Try this one: sadness. Let’s keep going: here are a few more to try: … Continue reading

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It’s not just the question: it’s how you ask it

There is a lot of interest on the news channels for how the Scottish Government wants to frame the question for its proposed referendum on Scottish devolution.  Does it really matter, as long as the question is clear?  The answer … Continue reading

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When Jiminy Cricket loses his voice

When you are about to lie, or break your word, your conscience dives in to make you feel uncomfortable.  This is what psychologists call “cognitive dissonance” and what I call “the Jiminy Cricket effect” – after Pinocchio’s friend. The question is, can … Continue reading

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… and then there were Four

The advance copies of Brilliant Project Leader arrived on Tuesday morning and they are looking excellent. It is published today, on 17 November and Amazon UK are promising availability from 23 November. This is my fourth book in the Brilliant … Continue reading

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Young Apprentice 2011 – 2: Presenting Skills and the Perfect Storm

There was a lot of interest to pick out of last night’s Young Apprentice, so let’s get the facts out of the way. The teams, Atomic (a slightly depleted boys’ team) and Kinetic (the girls) were set the task to … Continue reading

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The Power of Voice, Part 2

Let’s resume… In Part 1, we met Steve Hudson, creator of the Hudson Voice Technique. This is a systematic process for using your voice like a precision tool to convey emotion and conviction, draw your listener in, and enhance memory … Continue reading

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A Bigger Bite

What is management without vision and inspiration? The sad news about Steve Jobs’ untimely death has spurred more blogs than anyone has the time to read, so just a short blog and a simple observation. Making the complex seem easy … Continue reading

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The Power of Voice, Part 1

Voice can Influence You only have to hear the clear, commanding tones of some of the finest actors – men and women – to believe in the power of the voice to influence. Albert Mehrabian’s famous (and much abused) formulation … Continue reading

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