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The Power of Questions: Seven Tips

Changing my mind is difficult for you to do. But I do it all of the time.  So one of the most powerful ways for you to change my mind is to ask me questions.  When I answer them, you … Continue reading

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Creating the Onion Model

The Onion Model of Resistance is a model I developed initially to describe resistance to change. I subsequently generalised it to cover handling: resistance to ideas in a presentation sales objections resistance in a learning environment resistance to engagement Full … Continue reading

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Creating the Onion Model Part 2

Yesterday, I posted the first part of an article published in the September 2011 issue of Training Journal.  I describe how I developed the Onion Model that is at the centre of The Handling Resistance Pocketbook. Here is Part 2 … Continue reading

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Creating the Onion Model

In the September 2011 issue of Training Journal, I describe how I developed the Onion Model that is at the centre of The Handling Resistance Pocketbook.  Here is that article. Models are the way that human beings understand our world, … Continue reading

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13 Forms of Resistance to Handle

Seth Godin’s tremendous blog is guaranteed to make you think more often than not.  And he manages to put out one a day, seven days a week: wow! Yesterday, he posted “The warning signs of defending the status quo” He … Continue reading

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Handling Resistance to Engagement

This month’s edition of Training Journal focuses on the topic of “engagement”, with seven feature articles dedicated to the topic. I really like what the new editor, Elizabeth Eyre, has done in theming each issue.  The quality of the articles these … Continue reading

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Resistance to Engagement Part 2

In yesterday’s post, Part 1, we started looking at resistance to engagement, by looking at the basics of the onion model and then peeling the first layer: “I don’t understand why you want me to engage with you.” In this … Continue reading

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Resistance to Engagement Part 1

People want to be engaged.  They want to be treated fairly, to be consulted about what is happening, and to feel valued and supported.  Yet employee engagement initiatives often meet with scepticism, resistance and even hostility.  Why is this?  Can … Continue reading

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Handling Resistance to Engagement

This month’s edition of Training Journal is focused on the topic of “engagement”, seven feature articles dedicated to the topic. I was honoured to be asked by the editor, Elizabeth Eyre, to contribute.  My article “Resistance to Engagement” builds on the … Continue reading

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How to Understand Resistance and Handle it Effectively

Mike’s first law of change: “Resistance is inevitable” There’s no getting around it, so all you can do is to embrace it, and engage with your resisters.  But how can you do so positively, and increase your chances of a … Continue reading

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